January Goals

This year I am trying to do a simple goal each month throughout the year. For January I got rid of social media on my phone and tried to "live in the moment" and put my phone down. I was a little nervous as I love instagram and checking in on all my friends. But I did not miss it at all!! I loved being more present in the simple/boring moments of life. When I sit next to scarlett doing her homework I am more engaged and not on my phone. When Jack is playing outside I actually watch and enjoy his smile instead of check my phone. It has been so refreshing to take a break from other peoples lives on social media and focus on my own. I will go back to it on my phone eventually but will change how I look at it and who I follow. No more following stores and shops that just drive me to spend more money. No more following "fashion bloggers" that make me dissatisfied with my wardrobe and house. I didn't even realize that I felt that way until I distanced myself from social media. I feel that following friends and family is wonderful but other shops and people is a waste of my thought and time. So here is to February and a new goal!

January has been filled with me starting to train for my marathon in April. It has been a physically hard month as I have had to adjust to waking up at 5am every morning except Sunday. But I love training with Emily and all my wonderful friends. They are all such inspiring women and mothers. As we run we never listen to music or "plug in". Instead, we take turns talking to each other and instigating good conversation. I love learning more about these women and not just running next to them. 2 days ago we ran 16 miles along a rocky, hilly trail, and we all loved it!! Not one of the 10 women brought headphones and we all enjoyed wonderful conversation as we watched the sunrise over the mountains. It was gorgeous and inspiring! When I was done I felt so renewed to be a better version of myself. So here is to another month of training!

Jack has become upsets with dressing up in all the girls princess dresses. 

Weekend at the Cabin

We loved spending the long MLK weekend up at the cabin. This time it was just our little family and I loved having it be simple. I took both girls skiing on Saturday and spending time with each of them indivuatlly was such a treat. Scarlett came with me in the morning and she was ready to hit the big slopes within a half hour. I was amazed how much she remembered from last year. Skiing with her was a breeze!! She could put her skies on by herself, pick herself up if she fell, and could on and off the lift without assistance. All I had to do was try and keep up with her. Alice on the other hand was very labor intensive and hands on. We just went up and down the tiny baby hill (the one at the bottom of the bunny hill). But she loved it and was all smiles! There was something so meaningful seeing my girls go down the very trails I went down at their age. I loved making those same memories with them and hope they remember it all with fondness. How lucky I am to have been taught how not only how to ski but snowboard as well. I am thankful my parents took the time and spent the money to give me so many talents. I was able to make such wonderful memories with both the girls (and not have to put them in ski school) because I can ski myself. The rest of the weekend was movies, snow playing, and sledding! Not the most relaxing weekend but one we all will remember.

Best of 2016

1. Moving into our new house

2. Scarlett getting into Smalley

3. Alice starting preschool with all her friends

4. 3 amazing weddings (Clarah, Caity, and Chloe)

5. Visiting Banff, Canada and Newport, CA

This year my heart has been filled gratitude. We moved to the most perfect house in the best area. We all feel that this house was meant for us and that this area of town was just where we were supposed to be. I feel so at home here and I have not missed our old house or ward for 1 day (despite loving our old area and ward). My biggest fears with moving was that I would 1. not be happy with the house or area 2. feel homesick for our old house 3. not know why we had to wait and wait to move. None of those fears have come true. I know why when we tried to move in the past it didn't feel right...we were waiting for this house. I feel it every day that this house was made for us, it just needed to become vacant so we could move in. I go running almost every morning with dear, dear friends and I think, as the sun rises over the valley, "our corner of the universe is so, so beautiful!!" I thank my heavenly father for answering my prayers and blessing us with wonderful area to raise our family.  

It has also been a trying year as we have lost many beloved grandparents. Nick lost his grandpa and grandma Strobelt and I lost my grandma Woodbury. They are greatly missed but we think of them so often. I feel my grandma so close to me in my times of need and I know she is with me. I love this gospel and the wonderful plan of salvation. They are but a moment away and I know I will see them again.  

Some of my Favorits from 2016

Chloe and Justin's Wedding

                              

2016 will go down as the year of weddings!! Clara in August, Caity in September, and Chloe in December. All our younger sisters married in one great year! Chloe's wedding was so special and meaningful. The sealing was one I will never forget. I felt so many loved ones who have passed on close by and I so many more to be born close as well. I admire Justin so much for committing himself to this gospel and finding the courage to be in the sealing room without his family. He was the only one, the first of his family to be baptized. He is a modern pioneer and I know his life with be so, so blessed for his decision to become a worthy member of the church. He is such a kind, honest, and good man. If nothing else my kids absolute adore him and he is so patient with their constant hugs/tackles. I loved that the day was overcast and that the venue, with all the tables,lights, and flowers, was cozy. I loved watching my two girls walk down the isle at the ring ceremony throwing flowers. I loved being with loved ones and feeling the strong bond of family. I loved seeing how happy chloe was and be reminded that she is such a gift to her family. Being 10 years younger than Nick she was a complete surprise and have filled her parents with so much joy. My generation is done getting married, no more siblings left. The next family wedding will be the grandkids...oh wow!

Christmas 2016

We had such an amazing Christmas weekend filled with family, presents and so many memories. Pat (Nick's grandma) was in town from England so we spent most of the weekend with the Strobelts. Christmas eve we spent at the Strobelts house and we had a huge celebration. Pat made her famous British dinner of prime rib, roasted potatoes, yorkshire pudding, and yummy desserts.  After dinner we played the christmas chimes and for 30 minutes it was nonstop chaos/noise. OF course the kids loved banging on their metal pipe as loud as they could. Then we had a talent show where Scarlett and Alice sang Rudolf the Red Nose Reindeer, Picture a Christmas, and Jingle Bells. Nick bought a truck load of candy so we could play grandpa Dunhills favorite game "competition". You roll dice and the person with the highest number gets to pick their candy first. Simple and a complete hit with the kids. And me, I won and got my Mike and Ikes! It will become a Christmas Eve tradition in our family so we can always remember crazy grandpas Dunhill. Then we had about 5 desserts that were all so amazing but none better than Pat's pavlova. it was a magical night and I loved seeing my children spend time with dear loved ones. 

Christmas fell on a Sunday this year, which i love. Going to church and worshipping our Savior on his birthday is a great blessing. We did santa gifts, stocking, and breakfast before church and then opened presents after church. Then we played and played with toys. The girls got legos, american girl dolls, and scooters. Jack got a car track and a new scooter. We went over to Tiffanys house in the evening for more present opening and left over dinner. I loved keeping Christmas day simple and spending it at our new house with just our little family. I was blessed to see Emily (and sit by the Flakes) at church and have my parents come over for a little bit Sunday morning. I was able to see all my family that was in town and not drive over a mile!! We are so, so blessed with ihe constant love and support of family. My children now nothing but love and fills me with so much gratidue. 

Christmas Eve

Christmas Morning